Week 4 Impressions: A “Pride and Prejudice” Read-Along

WEEK 4 IMPRESSIONS

This past week’s reading could be divided into two parts:

  1. The Astonishing Pemberley Sojourn
  2. The Great Lydia/Wickham Elopement Caper

Lizzy is thrown into a tizzy by how grand Pemberley is (and, let’s be honest, Mr. Darcy). 

Jane Austen doesn’t spend a lot of time spelling out the details of Pemberley’s architecture and furnishings. And, honestly, I’m grateful for that. I usually don’t have a great time understanding period details and design/architecture in books. We can take her word for it. And I can always turn to the Internet for visual aids.

Speaking of which…

I am indebted to our Miss Bennet: Christmas at Pemberley director Craig Johnson. He went on a tour of English estates some years ago and shared with the cast some tidbits of what all these places could have looked like. So you could take a little visual/web tour of the following locations: 

Chatsworth House, a model for Darcy’s Pemberley estate.

“Elizabeth saw, with admiration of his taste, that it was neither gaudy nor uselessly fine; with less of splendour, and more real elegance, than the furniture of Rosings.”

I’m not quite sure what this means (or how Rosings looks vs. Pemberley does). But it’s worth noting that the taste of each estate is different. And Lizzy aligns with the taste of Pemberley. (And the fashion/furnishing of each location is a factor in Miss Bennet: Christmas at Pemberley.)

Okay, so I think this part of the book is where a certain film adaptation has Mr. Darcy emerging from body of water. This doesn’t happen in the book. But in either case, Lizzy sees him in an entirely new light. Her first impression of him is melting away.

There’s a wonderful page (258 in my Signature Classics edition) that unspools from

“She certainly did not hate him.”

Flowing to:

“It was gratitude.–Gratitude, not merely for having once loved her, but for loving her still well enough, to forgive all the petulance and acrimony of her manner in rejecting him, and all the unjust accusations accompanying her rejection.”

To:

“Such a change in a man of so much pride, excited not only astonishment but gratitude–for to love, ardent love, it must be attributed.”

Lizzy’s smitten!

(Sidenote: I love the word “ardent.” It pops up in Miss Bennet: Christmas at Pemberley.)

As this Pemberley section continues, every single look and word is scrutinized by each character. There’s such a buzz and hum of possibility and assessment from all parties. It’s wonderful!

And then we get to the record scratch moment: Lydia has run off with Mr. Wickham! It pulls us away from Pemberley and back to Longbourn. It’s absolute chaos. And my phone-addicted mind is amazed by how much time it takes for news to reach people. And how long it takes to travel.

This section is full of agony and angst—very dramatic. It pulls us away from Darcy (until it doesn’t!). I appreciate the saga of it all. This is a very societal/familial story and Austen lets us spend time in a world that is full. A two-hour film can only show so much, and I appreciate the slow burn this story has so far. Lizzy is so attached to her family (especially Jane). She’s not fixed on Darcy. Plus, Lydia’s actions could ruin the Bennet reputation for good (at least that’s my impression).

I nearly spat out my coffee when I read Mr. Collins’s letter—particularly this line:
“The death of your daughter would have been a blessing in comparison to this.”

Amidst the chaos, we get a moment of brilliance from Mary:

“This is a most unfortunate affair; and will probably be much talked of. But we must stem the tide of malice, and pour into the wounded bosoms of each other, the balm of sisterly consolation.”

Meanwhile, Mr. Bennet is bumbling along and attempting to do what he can to get to the bottom of this. He loves to drag his heels, doesn’t he.

My big impression of Austen, and this is true from the very first page, is how skilled she is at hairpin turns. It’s a great comic technique. And I found a wonderful example that is easy to gloss over when reading. But if you let each line and sentence land, it becomes an engaging and entertaining ride.

This is from a letter from Uncle Gardiner:

The particulars, I reserve till we meet. It is enough to know they are discovered, I have seen them both–
“Then it is, as I always hoped,” cried Jane; “they are married!” Elizabeth read on;
I have seen them both. They are not married, nor can I find there was any intention of being so.

I LOVE stuff like this. It gives me a little thrill. Seriously! And I think it can be easy, myself included, to miss these moments of juicy, funny twists. Your mileage may vary, of course. But I think you can tell how much fun Austen is having. It’s writing like this that lasts. Shakespeare does it too. This stuff is alive and brimming with the full spectrum of the human condition.

Uncle Gardiner saves the day, apparently reconciling any financial disparity for this marriage arrangement. The Bennets struggle with the shame of it all, but do their best to accept it as Lydia bursts to the scene: “Lydia was Lydia still; untamed, unabashed, wild, noisy, and fearless.”

I think it’s safe to say that Aunt and Uncle Gardiner win the surrogate parents of the year award. Though, I’m not quite finished reading the book, so I could be eating some humble pie by the time I check back on this blog.

We end this section with an intriguing tidbit that Mr. Darcy was on standby, ready to give Lydia away to Mr. Wickham. Lizzy is very curious about this, obviously. She’s going to get to the bottom of this, somehow: first by writing to her Aunt. And if that doesn’t work, Lizzy says to herself: “I shall certainly be reduced to tricks and stratagems to find it out.”

I’ve got about 60 pages to go, and I can’t wait to see what twists and turns lie ahead as Pride and Prejudice comes to a close. I’ll check back in on Friday for a final wrap-up.

Week 3 Thoughts: A “Pride and Prejudice” Read-Along

Week 3 Impressions: A “Pride and Prejudice” Read-Along

This chunk involved the rest of volume 2, and what a doozy it was! I started to do mini recaps of each chapter, but I found that wasn’t working this time around. I want to resist summarizing, and that’s not easy. In any case, I present a scattered collection of thoughts on this third week of reading.

This volume mostly takes place at the Hunsford parsonage (where Mr. Collins and Charlotte reside). Lizzy takes the time to enjoy the change of pace. It’s a bit of a retreat for her (until it’s not). She keeps bumping into Mr. Darcy or his cousin Colonel Fitzwilliam. 

We get to meet Lady Catherine in this section. My, she’s a fussy, critical woman.  But also rather funny—in a Lady Bracknell sort of way (that’s for you Oscar Wilde/Importance of Being Earnest fans). Lizzy holds her own with Lady Catherine: “Elizabeth suspected herself to be the first creature who had ever dared to trifle with so much dignified impertinence.” 

My new impression is that Mr. Collins and Charlotte are seemingly happy, or at least content? Maybe this wasn’t a terrible match after all?

But that’s just it! That’s the whole point of this book (and part of the fun of reading this in segments with others). Jane Austen sets up a whole spectrum of impressions and expectations. We’re led to believe something about a character and then the reverse happens! (I suppose that’s the mark of any good storyteller.) This book appears to be, on one hand, the dangers of cementing a first impression in your mind. In fact, the original title for this was First Impressions. And that’s mighty revealing, isn’t it?

Anyway, I’m hopeful Charlotte and Mr. Collins can make it work. But who knows. 

Another major theme is that folks should marry for a balance of love and security (money). It shouldn’t tip too far in any direction. And we start to realize that, despite their charm and comic affectations, Mr. and Mrs. Bennet are not the paragon of parenting or marriage. And their behavior has consequences! But I’m getting ahead of myself. Let’s get back to Lizzy and Darcy.

An illustration for “Pride and Prejudice” by C.E. Brock (1895)

Reader, I have to confess my jaw dropped when Darcy strolled into the house and declared his love for Lizzy. I thought there was going to be a bit more preamble. I suppose there was a flirty exchange earlier, when the two  were truly alone together for the first time. It was still antagonistic, but there was a playful air about it? I dunno. Anyway, I wasn’t expecting this Event so early on!

Once Darcy proposes, things go terribly. Lizzy really goes for the jugular here. These two are stubborn, prideful and prejudicial people. (sidenote: I peeked at a blog post that says it’s easy to place Darcy as the proud one and Lizzy as prejudicial, but the post also argues that the opposite is true).

Lizzy: “Long before it had taken place [the Jane and Bingley drama], my opinion of you was decided.”


Darcry (later on): “But perhaps these offences might have been overlooked, had not your pride been hurt by my honest confession of the scruples that had long prevented my forming any serious design.”

Lizzy: “You could not have made me the offer of your hand in any possible way that would have tempted me to accept it.” (and a bit later) “I had not known you a month before I felt that you were the last man in the world whom I could ever be prevailed on to marry.”

Yikes!

Anyway, Darcy writes a very long letter to her, she reads it, and it sends her into quite an awakening. I won’t relay all that went down. But when Lizzy starts to think deeply about the Wickham/Darcy feud, Lizzy starts to understand that “it was impossible not to feel there was gross duplicity on one side of the other.” And this she begins to untangle all sorts of factors.

Maybe Jane and Bingley aren’t quite the match afterall?
Maybe Wickham is a dangerous cad?

Maybe the Bennets, as a whole, are an embarrassing imprudent family?

Lizzy goes into a spiral that would serve as quite an aria if this were turned into an opera:

“How descpicably have I acted! I, who have prided myself on my discernment! I, who have valued myself on my abilities! Who have often disdained the generous candour of my sister, and gratified my vanity, in useless or blameless distrust–How humiliating is this discovery!–Yes, how just a humiliation!–Had I been in love, I could not have been more wretchedly blind. But vanity, not love, has been my folly.–Pleased with the preference of one, and offended by the neglect of the other, on the very beginning of our acquaintance, I have courted prepossession and ignorance, and driven reason away, where either were concerned. Till this moment, I never knew myself.”

WHEW!

There is so much more to unpack here, and I guess I’m having trouble resisting the urge to recap and provide a play-by-play reaction to everything that happens in this section. So I’m going to wrap things up for now. We’re in the thick of it. Lizzy is attempting to do some damage control with her family (especially since young Lydia is off to Brighton). She also has to figure out how much Darcy news share with Jane and others. And we end the volume with a visit to Pemberley!

Before leaving with the daily schedule for Week 4, I’d like to share a small list of two-word phrases that work wonderfully together. The sound alone of these combinations gives delight. (And I know at least one of them is from Shakespeare, so you know Austen is thinking about sound and rhythm of language.)

  • Dignified impertinence
  • Restless ecstasy (this is from Shakespeare’s Macbeth)
  • Boundless influence
  • Wild volatility
  • Clamourous happiness
  • Querulous serenity

Which one is your favorite?

Here’s the daily schedule for week 4. After that, there’ll be one more shorter section and we’re all done!

Week 2 Thoughts: A “Pride and Prejudice” Read-Along

Week 2 Thoughts: A “Pride and Prejudice” Read-Along

WEEK 2 REFLECTIONS

I’m experimenting with the format here. This is going to be a bit longer, and more of a play-by-play reaction as I go.

Chapter XVI – aka Lizzy’s Crushing Hard On Wickham

Not only is he attractive, but he’s courteous, well-mannered, and a wonderful conversationalist.
And he confirms Lizzy’s prejudice against Darcy with all kinds of details. This is monumental.

“Whatever he said, was said well; and whatever he did, done gracefully. Elizabeth went away with her head full of him. She could think of nothing but of Mr. Wickham, and of what he had told her, all the way home”

I also want to point out a significant plot development (I suspect) is brewing: the daughter of  Lady Catherine de Bourgh “will have a very large fortune.” And there is the not-so-subtle hint that Rosings and Pemberley will be united. We can’t forget that nugget, can we?

We also get more elaborations on pride and the different kinds of pride that exist that are wholly noble (in Wickham’s mind, anyway).


Chapter XVII – Anticipation! The Netherfield Ball is Nigh!

Excitement abounds! The other piece of intrigue is Lizzy now understands that Mr. Collins may be seeking her in marriage, but she won’t entertain that line of thinking until he says it for himself.

So far in this book, the youngest daughters Lydia and Kitty are characterized as almost one entity. I’m not criticizing, necessarily, just observing that they are boy-crazy, especially with those soldiers. 

This bit from Mary about the impending ball made me smile:

“While I can have my mornings to myself…it is enough. I think it no sacrifice to join occasionally in evening engagements. Society has claims on us all; and I profess myself one of those who consider intervals of recreation and amusement as desirable for every body.”


Chapter XVII – Dancing with Darcy and Trying not to Die of Embarrassment from Other Relations

This is the Main Event!

First of all, I don’t laugh out loud when I read all that much, but when Lizzy “danced” with Mr. Collins, I did:

“The two first dances, however, brought a return of distress; they were dances of mortification. Mr. Collins, awkward and solemn, apologising instead of attending, and often moving wrong without being aware of it, gave her all the shame and misery which a disagreeable partner for a couple of dances can give. The moment of her release from him was ecstasy.”

I think “Dances of Mortification” would make a good album title.

A recurring motif for Austen is noting when Darcy smiles. He does at least twice in this chapter and has done so earlier. I have this impression (built up from collective cultural swooning) that he’s a stone cold gargoyle, but that’s not quite right. And even though we spend the most time in Lizzy’s point of view, we get a sentence like the following:

“For in Darcy’s breast there was a tolerable powerful feeling towards her, which soon procured her pardon, and directed all his anger against another.”

Oh my goodness, there’s a bit toward the end when Mary starts singing, and it’s painted as the most painful karaoke takeover possible. But this along with a collection of other events and mannerisms have larger implications. The Bennets (and Mr. Collins) are all guests at this huge private party, and there’s a sense (from Lizzy) that they are pulling focus, possibly jeopardizing any chance of Jane and Mr. Bingley to secure a match. 

Though, it does seem like a done deal, doesn’t it? Jane and Mr. Bingley have eyes only for each other. It’s very sweet.

One final thought on this chapter: Because of that aforementioned cultural swooning of Darcy and working on dialects for Miss Bennet: Christmas at Pemberley, I know who is married to whom at the end of this book. Those matches are “spoiled” for me. And I was a little worried that my knowledge of those matches would impede my enjoyment of reading this book. However, it was this Netherfield Ball chapter that sealed the deal, for me, that the twisting journey of how and when we get to those supposed “happily ever afters” is going to be the remaining fun. 


Chapters XIX – XXIII – Mr. Collins Proposes (Twice)

Mr. Collins is, to put it mildly, a windbag. In my edition, his proposal to Lizzy goes on for a whole page in a single paragraph. Then Austen gives the following its own paragraph: “It was absolutely necessary to interrupt him.” I can see how it’s easy to think of Collins as a meddlesome, buzzing fly who won’t go away, but there is a bout of rationality in his argument. Marriage is a financial concern. And he wants to keep his fortune and the estate with the Bennets (or appears to).

Anyway, he ends up proposing to Charlotte Lucas. We haven’t spent a lot of time with her. (There are lots of characters flitting in and around, aren’t there?)
Here’s what we learn about Charlotte:
“Without thinking highly either of men or of matrimony, marriage had always been her object; it was the only honourable provision for well-educated young women of small fortune, and however uncertain of giving happiness, must be their pleasantest preservative from want.” YIKES. But that’s Regency Society, for you!

I’m afraid to report there is now doubt about the Bingley/Jane union. Even Lizzy (privately) believes so.

I loved what Lizzy had to say about weighing personal happiness against that of friends and family:

JANE: “But, my dear sister, can I be happy, even supposing the best, in accepting a man whose sisters and friends are all wishing him to marry elsewhere?”
LIZZY: “You must decide for yourself, and if upon mature deliberation, you find that the misery of disobliging his two sisters is more than equivalent to the happiness of being his wife, I advise you by all means to refuse him.”

This wraps up the end of Volume 1. There’s a sour malaise at Longbourn.


VOLUME 2: Chapters I – V Jane Goes to London and Lizzy Is Sick of All Men

Confession time: I usually read in the mornings, but I wanted to stay on top of the reading and other Commonweal work, so I decided to read this particular chunk of chapters in one sitting, later in the day. There were some occasions when my focus and comprehension were slipping. I am not too proud to say I went over to Sparknotes and got a handle on the goings on. It’s all cleared up. Whew!

My main confusion centered on the Wickham developments. I think my main quibble here is I get tripped up on who folks are talking about sometimes. This Miss King (the young woman who has caught Wickham’s eye) popped out of nowhere, it seems! Did I miss something previously? I’m all squared away, now, thanks to some help (I’m trying, in general, to avoid summaries and blog posts and analysis from others right now–trying to keep this reading as “pure” as possible. I’ll dive into reviews and analysis when I’m done).

It’s also worth noting that Wickham–for all his appeal–does not have a lot of money. So Lizzy’s Aunt Gardiner (wisely?) advises that he’s not worth pursuing.

Lizzy’s own prejudice about Charlotte being doomed for unhappiness with Mr. Collins is tested on her visit to the Hunsford parsonage. Interesting. Interesting. Maybe this match is okay? (I’m so curious about Charlotte and Mr. Collins because I have a friend who wrote a play about Charlotte, and I cannot wait to check it out).

The plot has me a bit more on eggshells now. The book, up until these later chapters, has been relatively bouncy and joyful. Jane Austen knows how to twist and turn. She does it on a sentence level and on a larger scale. It’s fascinating. I’m worried about this Jane and Bingley plot (Bingley’s sisters are wretched, aren’t they?! But will my own prejudice over them be challenged? I’m not sure!).

I think I’ll leave it at that for now.

Here’s this week’s schedule if you’re following along. Read all the way through the second volume.

A couple more things.

  1. I found this at a store the other day: Pride and Prejudice in Space by Alex Lampley. It has lots of graphics and illustrations sprinkled throughout.

2. I’ve been listening to this playlist on Spotify while I read. It’s wonderful. I’m sure YouTube has a host of Regency-era playlists too.

Happy reading, everyone!